Every generation has their own love story but this generation, my generation, by far, has always talked about love more than anything I know. If we subtract our love for family and friends but then sub it in for the romantic side of love, we are the young generation of long lasting relationships to unbearable break-ups. We are strong enough to pick ourselves back up but we are to weak enough to fall for love over and over again. We sometimes lose ourselves through another person’s eyes. We get blinded by what we see in their eye’s and forget what is passing by (i.e. education, future, health, etc) but that’s it! In hopes that this person will go through these important chapters in our lives in hopes for them to be the one to help you get through it all. I don’t know if that makes sense but for us romantic kids we understand the steps of love and how it’s not always going to be perfect or amazing and some days you both won’t agree on something but still sticking by each others side through everything, you know it was worth the pain, the cries, and the trouble.
See our parents get so upset because they don’t think we know what love is. And sometimes we go past the rules and go the extra mile to be liked by someone but when in fact that someone was just using you. And you know your parents already said “be careful”, “watch out for yourself”, and that triggers your heart and you tell yourself, “why didn’t I just listen.” Well here, you're in love but when you're in love you shouldn’t exert your energy or your body but your mind and personality. Beauty fades and why waste more energy when the whole entire world is losing energy. Just be smart about who you put your heart through and your personality will forever be with you. And I have learned that, through my Godmother. She married a very good looking man who had wealth and money. She asked him, “Why did you pick me. I am not that pretty. But those women are beautiful and you can have anyone of them but you chose me. And you married me.” My uncle replied, “It’s not about beauty, or the type of background you came from. It was your personality that caught my attention because I believe the core of being beautiful is the way you present yourself and how you present yourself. Your personality outshines every beautiful woman that I ever saw.”
One day you will meet the one or even the one you are with now might just be the one. Don’t ever lose track of the one you are after or the one that got away because another man’s loss is another man’s gain. And you never want that to always be in the back of your mind.
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