If someone is out of your life because shit went down, don’t dwell on it. You may reminisce on all the good times but remember that you refer to some people in the past tense because that’s exactly where they should stay- the past. There are some relationships I’ve held with some people for years but shit falls apart. Like I’ve said before, don’t spend major time with minor people. I’ll admit that sometimes I sit back and reminisce about all things we went through and all the good times. At times I want to reach out and reconnect with these people but the problem is that I don’t miss them.
 
I miss the way they used to be, the situations that we were in, the way I used to be. It’s the past that I’m trying to reconnect with and not them in the present era.