SEE POSSIBILITIES WHERE OTHERS SEE OBSTACLES

In any relationship, it is possible to find evidence that suggests the relationship will thrive or evidence that predicts it just won’t work. Even the strongest, best relationships experience problems that suggest it might not last. And even the most tenuous relationships, there are reasons that it might work as well. The real question is which evidence you pay more attention to. Constant attention to the weaknesses of any relationship will weaken it. Constant attention to the strengths of any relationship will strengthen it.